Entj female dating intj male
There may be no two types mistaken for each other more than INFJs and INFPs.And while they may look similar from the outside, they are very different creatures inside.You’re going to need to stay at those jobs even when you want to quit, because you need long stays on your resume now, to counteract all those short ones.(Fortunately, at 24, you can drop a lot of those earlier jobs off your resume altogether so they won’t be haunting you for years — but you do need to replace them with much longer-term jobs.) If you build up a sustained period of stable work where you demonstrate a work ethic — whether you like what you’re doing or not — over time you’ll erase some of the damage that’s currently making you unappealing to good employers.I have had some college but didn’t manage a degree – because I dropped out.(I dropped out because I did not work well with my professors, and got stressed out with work added in the mix.)I am currently looking for work, but believe I cannot find it due to companies that primarily hire based on online and personality applications, lack of a good structured work history, no achievements, and my inability to interact with societal norms. This also isn’t about not being challenged; loads of people have jobs that aren’t particularly challenging and they hold on to them anyway because of a work ethic or sense of responsibility or or because they’re working toward something better or because of a basic interest in having a paycheck and a stable work history.Interesting, challenging jobs have lots of people applying for them, and employers will rarely hire someone with a spotty work history when they have loads of qualified candidates without a history of job-hopping.
It’s pretty unlikely you’re going to get a job that you find challenging with this work history or this approach. What this about is how you’ve handled yourself in the work world so far.What all this means is that if you want to create the conditions to get interesting, challenging work, you’re going to have to engage in some serious reputation repair, and that’s going to mean sacrificing for a while.You’re going to need to work at jobs that you don’t find especially challenging while you’re building a stronger work history, and you’re going to need to appear to do it cheerfully and enthusiastically so that you can build up references.INFJs are leading with an intuitive, learning process and INFPs are leading with a feeling, decision-making process.
For many INFPs it may be surprising to learn that they lead with a decision-making process, since decisions can be grueling for this type.
The second longest is a year and a month, 2012-2013 for a security company. I blame my personality type, INTJ, and quit most positions without having another job lined up, so I have a lot of gaps in my employment history as well.